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Lonely Married Men: What Makes Them Lonely?

by Married and Dating on August 8, 2012

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I am so envious of this one friend of mine; she is beautiful, her boyfriend is a successful businessman, and she is being paid for doing what she loves to do. However, all the envy I feel towards her vanished in an instant when she confided to me one day saying that her mother caught her father cheating. This story is very much relevant with what our article is all about today: lonely married men. Why are they still looking for lonely housewife personals when they already have their wives?

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I have a pretty normal family, and although we are not living the good life just like what those rich families have, I must say that I am happy and contented with the family I have. I must say that my father does not belong to the group where the father of my friend belongs, the group of lonely married men.

Indeed, the number of divorce cases and broken families significantly increased over the years. Though the reasons are multi-factorial, it is safe to say that one of those is the truth that the husbands are actually already lonely married men. So why are they lonely? What is it that they find unsatisfying in their wives? What runs in their minds when they are at the verge of cheating on their wives?

Below are some of the most common reasons why there are men who just can’t find happiness and satisfaction that they resort to finding another woman:

They married too early. Most men who married at their 20’s are often the ones who find themselves unhappy with their married life. It could be because they feel like their lives have gone serious too early, especially if their friends are still single and can still go out to party freely without a young one to think about. This age level is also considered to be the peak of men’s adventures in terms of the different aspects in their lives.

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They feel like they married the wrong woman. Some men who are into unhappy marriages are usually worried by the fact that they might have made the wrong decision of choosing the girl to marry. In the marriage, there will always be chances where the man would compare his wife to an officemate, or to another friend’s wife. And that is where all the problem would arise; the thinking that they may still be able to find someone who could outshine their wives qualities.

They are not yet mature enough for marriage. A lot of lonely married men are unable to handle a married life with maturity. And as a result, they end up not being at their best in the marriage. Eventually, because of this feeling of unpreparedness , they end up looking for outlets to release their stress and anxiety, and that includes looking for another woman.

They are just plain losers. Some men are just pathetic, and they often just want to prove their masculinity by way of convincing themselves that they are still able to attract women despite their married status.

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Deciding to Stop Dating Married Man

by Married and Dating on July 30, 2012

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Nowadays, married men and lonely housewives are all over the net. As a result of this, many young men and women are now dating married man and woman. The thought of dating married man might have also crossed your mind. Some of you might be already dating a married man. Even if you finally decide to sever your ties with a married man, you will find it to be quite a difficult thing to do. If you want to stop dating married man, you have to be prepared to make an effort. You should also have the resolve to push through your decision. Here are some tips to help you stop dating married man.

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Consider seeing a psychiatrist

If you have the time and resources you should consider seeing a psychiatrist. This is because they can figure out why women tend to fall for men that are married. Remember, you should open up all of your feelings to the psychiatrist if you want him to help you with your problems. Disregarding the advice of your psychiatrist will only get you back to step one.

Think of your feelings to that married man as an addiction and not as an attraction

Being attracted and addicted to a married man are two different things. Make sure that you know this. If you find it hard to sever your ties with a married man then you are probably addicted to him. Blind love is like drugs in more ways than one.

Attend group therapies regarding these matters

Remember that there are also others like you. Some of them get together and share their experiences in hopes of finding a solution to their addiction. Attend these group therapies and listen to these people express their feelings. Do not be afraid to share your own experiences. This will help you in being honest with yourself. You will also find out the reason why you find it hard to sever your relationship with a married man through these group therapies.

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Name the things that make you attracted to him

Write down the things that you like in him. I am pretty sure that your list will not be that long. In figuring out what you really like in a married man, you will see that most of these things can also be found in a single man. In short, know what you really want in a partner. Surely, there are other choices besides dating a married man.

When you decide to leave him, do not have second thoughts

After you finally decide to sever your ties with a married man, just leave him and do not have second thoughts. Goodbyes do not always have to involve drama. Having second thoughts will only give him the impression that you do not really want to leave. Beware as he might use this to his advantage.

If you still find it hard to stop dating a married man, consider stopping dating anyone – married or not. Instead, spend time with yourself and think about what you truly want in life.

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Signs That the Man You Are With Is Dating While Married

by Married and Dating on July 26, 2012

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There are several women nowadays that are having an affair with married men. There are also a lot of men that are married looking for discreet affairs with these women. If you ask me, dating while married isn’t completely a bad thing. Well it is a form of cheating but if you are not harming anyone by doing so then this isn’t really a bad thing. However, the bad thing here will be if you know you are stepping on people but you still continue doing what you do. So how do you know if the man you are with is dating while married? Will you be able to differentiate between a married and an unmarried man? To help you, here are some signs that they man you are with is dating while married to another woman.

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If he is inconsistent

Inconsistency is one of the most common proof that a man is lying; regardless of whether he is married or not. You can tell if he is lying or not in several different ways. One way is if he suddenly cuts his phone call with you for no reason. Another is if he is not available most of the time. These things are signs that he has someone else that he has to attend to. Watch out for other signs of inconsistency too.

If he is keeping secrets

Another sign that the man you are with is dating while married is if he is keeping secrets from you. Yes, everyone has secrets but not knowing any details about him and his background after dating him for quite some time is a different story. If you ask him some personal questions and he answers these questions vaguely or if he evades the topic then he is definitely keeping secrets from you. You should remember that in any kind of relationship, honesty is a very important factor. Plus, don’t compromise your safety as he might be keeping something illegal too.

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Meeting his family and friends

You can tell that the man you are with is married or not if he is open when it comes to his friends and family. If he is able to introduce you to his friends and family without any trouble then he is probably sincere. However, if he hasn’t introduced you to any of his friends, family or important people in his life, you are most probably just a sideline.

If he is giving too much effort

Yes, being showered with gifts and presents is always good. However, there are times that the man is doing too much. You can tell if he is overdoing things if he’s treating you like no man has ever treated you before. Chances are he is just doing things like this to make you give in earlier. This may be because he is under a time limit or he just doesn’t want to be caught. Either way, giving in too early will only spell doom for you in the future.

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