What are the Pros and Cons of Dating a Married Women?

by Married and Dating on July 21, 2012

in For Men

Dating a married women is somewhat exciting and at the same time challenging. Most men do it for enjoyment, and do not actually think of the end result that awaits them. For some who are interested getting themselves into married dating, there are some advantages and disadvantages that you might need to realize first.

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  1. The most obvious good point in dating a married women is that you will probably have some of the best intimate relationship you have ever had. Women who are interested into extra marital affairs are known to be searching for physical outlet and not for love or romance. Since guys are more into the sexual part of the relationship, then you might surely experience the best sex you ever wished for!
  2. As mentioned earlier, dating a married women adds adrenaline rush to the relationship because of the confidentiality that you need to maintain. The only way for you to see each other is to sneak away in the middle of the night, or make up an excuse to tell her husband for her to be able to join you in a quick weekend getaway. No matter how and where, but some people are attracted to committing these types of danger that adds fun to the illicit affair.
  3. Basically, dating a married women will not cause you emotional attachments just like what normal kinds of dating relationships usually have. The married woman will certainly not expect you to be engaged in every detail of her life. So there will be less drama when the time comes that you will need to separate ways one day.
  4. Another advantage when dating a married women is that you do not have to invest on a lot of cash in the relationship. What you usually need to spend for would be the motel room from time to time, since you will not likely have normal dating expenses. You cannot take her to a restaurant because she might see somebody she knows, and most especially you cannot buy her any jewelry or romantic gifts because her husband might get apprehensive.

advantages and disadvantages of dating a married women


  • The first and foremost disadvantage is that her husband might one day find out about the illicit affair. The married woman is expected to face a lot of unpleasant scenarios, and one of the ugly situations nobody wants to experience is divorce.
  • Some raging husbands tend to be very violent once they find out their wives have been cheating on them, and this is one of the serious consequences that most men is known to commit against their straying wives and their partners.
  • Most of the time men who are seeing a woman usually develop an emotional attachment. So this leaves you a question of what to do if you fall in love with woman with whom you are having an affair? Because this actually happens. If she has no plans of leaving her husband to be with you, then you may end up heartbroken.
  • Lastly, there is a moral dilemma you need to think about. You are prone to breaking up a family. A casual, sexual affair may end up causing permanent consequences for your married partner’s family and her children.

{ 3 comments… read them below or add one }

Dave March 19, 2015 at 9:44 pm

I’m :
41 —– 2/14/75
have a BA in History
Full scholarship ~~baseball
U.S. Army , 82nd Airborne
Colonel ; Ranger ;[Special Ops


Dave March 19, 2015 at 9:47 pm

I want to meet a women , married or not .
I’m looking for someone when I come home .
Like her to enjoy most kinds of sex ; prehaps even swinging too


Dave March 19, 2015 at 9:47 pm

moderation ??? I thought a woman would want the truth ??


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